Sue - And a beautiful sermon it was. XO. I love when you come and visit us here.
Re-reading
The Pleasure Trap is a great idea. I think I may be due for that. Or, maybe I'll purchase the new audio version once its available digitally to listen to while I clean. I love your comment on reducing decisions in your life to conserve mental energy - you probably saw this post but Dr. Lisle talks a bit about willpower and how it's depleted in his talk called
The Willpower Paradox, which I briefly summarized in February (down in the middle of the post).
Idgie - Your
white lie strategy sounds like a winner! I'm not even sure I'd consider it a lie because part of you may want the donut, but part of you doesn't....and that's the part of you we want to empower. XO. Your mom is a keeper too! Wonderful loss and dedication to the guidelines this week. Weight will fluctuate day to day, but it's great to see your overall trend is heading in the right direction.
Stephanie - I like the line you've drawn in your household about being okay with others eating what they want but you won't be cooking it for them. With regards to:
Stephanie wrote:I think that we are all social creatures and unless you live on an island you will find that most people don't follow this way of eating and you will be questioned, teased, etc. I like people and I don't know anyone in real life that follows this diet (or anything like it).
I do happen to live on an island and people still keep finding me and questioning me (LOL...sorry I couldn't resist the bad joke). But you are correct, learning a way to deal with the conversations that is comfortable and won't negatively affect your relationships is so important. You've set some great rules of conduct for yourself and they obviously work well for you, thank you for sharing them. Also, thank you for sharing a bit more about what brought you here and keeps you McDougalling. I have never-ending curiosity about these things, but I understand that everyone will share things in their own time. I loved your response, it wasn't rambling at all!
Michael - Oh my, what happened with the dog? Has your hand healed well? What kind of yoga do you practice?
Rosey - I use the same strategy as you (and Sue) do with certain off-plan foods that are just too tempting. My husband will put them in the trunk of his car and therefore they don't end up in the house with me all day. Most times I'm too tired and lazy at night to wander out in the dark to get them. I will admit, however, that wasn't always the case. In my early years McDougalling (if it could be called that) I was still highly motivated to seek out junk if it was even remotely convenient to do so. The amount of energy I'm willing to dedicate to this kind of thing has lessened over the years I'm happy to report (don't get me wrong, I still have my moments if I get too tangled in the pleasure trap but I see a definite trend in waning motivation to go too far out of my way...and that is a wonderful thing).
Vintagesan - Wonderful loss this week.
Moonlight - I love that you're continuing to monitor your progress in such a detailed way for this period of time in order to understand where your stumbling blocks are.
What is the goal for this week? Maybe choose 2 items from your list to focus on, while continuing with what you are already having moderate success with. They could be to go 7 days without meat and flour products. Make whatever you choose priority number 1 for the week. Tell yourself you can handle it for 7 days. (I did this a couple of years ago in my McDougall online journal when following a 10 day Mary's Mini to try and get myself on track and support my sister who was attempting one too - journaling it and committing to both the time period and the journaling made me feel like I had to follow through - now it's never a guarantee of course, but it happened to give me just enough discomfort at failing that I was able to pull it off.)
I am sending you much support this week...you are here and posting and giving this your all and I admire that a lot!
Stephanie (again) - Great loss this week. You are really rocking the plan. I hope you do spy a starchivore with your little eye! Potlucks with other veg people are the best.
Vic - I know, right! Everyone has been really supportive and sharing great tips this month. I am so grateful for this.
You are doing great, it can be hard to convince our minds to let go of the idea of putting a timeline on the weight loss, especially if you are giving it your all - which you are! Keep
chopping wood and carrying water, as Jeff would say, and you will get there in your body's own sweet time.
Jeff -
Rosey (again) - Excellent - it's progress, not perfection, that we're after.
Esther - I agree, every week is a good week when we are treating ourselves to the
Healthiest Diet on the Planet.
Congratulations on 2 very successful years. What strategies or information sources did you find helpful when you were new to the MWL program? From your
success story, I understand that you were highly motivated to gain mobility and get off of some medications.