What ia meant is that while parents try to farm out the teaching of ethics, morals, and social skills to schools, it is STILL their own responsiblity to provide this teaching. Outsourcing does not absolve parents of their responsiblity.
I was amused the other day when a co-worker told me that her son hit her very young daughter AT HOME. What did she do? She picked up the phone and called her son's principal to arrange to have her son spanked at school "so that he could learn what's right and what's wrong".
That is just plain stupid. Why the hell does a parent think that it is a school's job to discipline their own children for acts they did at home? Her answer: "I don't want my son to grow up hating me". This whole "I want to be friends with my children" is why kids are growing up with no sense of right and wrong.
There should be a license to procreate....or at least to raise children.
And bring it back on topic: the final problem to assuming that the school is responsible for teaching your kids right from wrong is that there is a very grey and very large area in the middle. Guess where teachers get their nutrition teaching materials? The Dairy Board, the Beef Board, the Pork Board, the Poultry Baord, you name it. So little kids are being taught to sing songs about how happy the cow is to give her young calves up to become veal and how important it is to get enough protein...and that vegetable protein is "incomplete" or that not eating meat will make you weak and sickly.
And the teachers are happy to have someone else provide the material. Indeed, they most likely learned the same songs when they were in grade school.
Think I'm joking?
Check out this page from the National Dairy Council
http://www.nutritionexplorations.org/ed ... .asp?tab=1
Or this page, from the Beef Board
http://www.teachfree.com/HealthySchoolNutrition.aspx
Here's a directory of Ag-provided teaching materials, some about vegetables and most about Beef, Pork, Chickens, and othe meat products
So if parents leave the teaching of values, ethics, and nutrition up to the schools, I guess we are doomed.
I stand by my statement: It is the parents' responsiblity to teach their kids in what they believe and the right way to do things. Blaming the schools is not the solution; it's a cop out.