Comments and FeedbackOh I would love if my husband would encourage me as well,
Rosie. But I guess he is not that type of guy. Anyway, till he started his own diet he never told me I was overweight or ugly or anything like that - I don't want to take him under my wings, but he is not that silly guy all the time. Maybe these are some male blackouts from time to time? lol
Be stronger than your mind...or at least your stomach - 07/06/18Nah...you don't have you check twice - I am really posting the 2nd time on one day. Why? I won't be able to come here tomorrow but I still have sooooo much on my mind I'd like to write down for myself.
Yesterday I felt like holy McDougall is testing me.
My husband, my son and I went for the groceries. While I was filling the cart with healthy stuff I heard my husband talking to my little one. "Do you want to eat fries this evening? Daddy wants to eat fries." Within seconds I saw myself sitting on the couch, eating a big plate of fries with tons of mayonnaise and ketchup (I can see you raising your eyebrows...but hey, I am European andsome of us really do this
) We went on shopping and then when we passed the frozen woods I saw that big bag joining my vegetables in the cart. I decided to leave my husband and son with the cart, grabbed one of the shopping baskets which stood everywhere and continued MY purchase on my own. We met again at the checkout and I saw all the stuff they wanted to buy.
I was both, shocked and afraid at the same time. Shocked because my husband seemed to end his diet and went back to all this unhealthy stuff, which he also wanted to offer our little boy. Afraid because I didn't know what I would do when they prepare these fries.
At home my husband started immediately to prepare their foods.
It was Thursday here. I just could think of Friday when I had to report my weight loss for the week.
For a second I catched myself thinking of eating the fries, hoping they won't affect my weight loss.
I was happy that I abandon this thought as quickly as it came up. First I decided to stay in another room while they are eating, but then I sat down next to my husband. I felt ashamed because - to be honest - I really gazed at them eating their fries. Of course, they offered me the food. But I declined. "Aren't you hungry?", my husband asked.
The next seconds were like a movie. I saw myself browsing the forum, clicking on a link that Jeff posted in the MWL section. This happened hours before, because I really did this in the morning. In the morning I skimmed through a newsletter from Dr McDougall but when my husband asked me I could remember the essential part:
It’s OK to be Hungry:
Sometimes you will find yourself in a situation where there is no healthy food available – like when you are out shopping, at a party, or dining with friends. You don’t have to eat. No harm will be done. You won’t starve to death by waiting a few hours until something healthy is available. Delaying gratification is the smart thing to do and when you do finally eat the right foods they will taste extra delicious.
So I looked at my husband. "I am. But it's okay to be hungry. I will eat when you both have finished. Thanks."
And from that moment on I could lean back on the couch and it didn't bother me anymore.
I just ignored them eating their fries and after they have finished, I went into the kitchen, prepared my salad and warmed up my leftovers from lunch. And it tasted like the best dish I ever had.
Afterwards my husband helped me to clean up the kitchen.
"Holy McDougall must be very proud of you" he joked. We both had to laugh. "You know he isn't a saint, do you?"
"Well, a man that can stop my wife, who is quite obessesive with fries, from eating them...must be a saint.
"
"You are an idiot." - "I know. But I am somehow proud to be YOUR idiot. Damn... now I can never use fries to calm you down again. Give me that book. I need to learn all about great salads.
"
It was a funny situation, but the topic wasn't.
My husband is right. I usually used food to calm down. I am excited how I will manage angry moments from now on...