Mark's Replies for September 18 - Part 1
Mark's Replies for September 18 - Part 2
By my count, 42 participants reported for our third September 2020 MWL weigh-in! If I neglected to include anyone, or you notice an error in the tally, please let me know (via PM so we can keep the thread as tidy as possible, or in a post here if you cannot PM).
Here are the results for the third Friday in September:
Week ending 9/18/2020: 42 participants reported a total loss of -22.00 pounds
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Cathy Ann +5.00
Connielovesdogs +4.90
Squealcat +2.60
NateKruse +2.40
Wstokes +2.20
PonysPlants +1.40
Hope410 +0.60
Ladevereaux +0.60
Beeshell +0.40
ChristinaElizabeth +0.10
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Total gains: +20.20
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NO CHANGE / MAINTAIN / STARTING OUT
Dot 0.00
Expat in NZ 0.00
Growing a Pear 0.00
Josietheschnauzer 0.00
Laura_delao 0.00
Wavingwheat 0.00
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Whereamac -0.20
Abe -0.50
Joanne_elon -0.50
Rlechols -0.50
Kirstykay -0.60
Texaslil -0.60
Waterfit -0.60
Amberlina -1.00
Kelly140 -1.00
Pattyj115 -1.00
LittlestTree -1.10
Louie3084 -1.30
Drew* -1.40
Frowsyowl -1.40
GreenFroG -1.40
Noella -1.50
CindyD -1.70
OrangeBird -1.80
Lachoffman -2.00
LesleyMills -2.00
VivianS -2.60
Wfpb2020 -2.60
Creaky -2.90
Reni -3.40
Chef16 -4.00
Oneesotericgirl -4.60
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Total losses: -42.20
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Cumulative group loss for September 2020 to date: 123.91 pounds
Average loss for week ending September 18: 0.52 pounds
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Cumulative group loss for January 2020: 384.15 pounds
Cumulative group loss for February 2020: 96.60 pounds
Cumulative group loss for March 2020: 60.10 pounds
Cumulative group loss for April 2020: 218.00 pounds
Cumulative group loss for May 2020: 191.50 pounds
Cumulative group loss for June 2020: 120.63 pounds
Cumulative group loss for July 2020: 524.80 pounds
Cumulative group loss for August 2020: 240.30 pounds
Next Weigh-In is on Friday, September 25, 2020.
Let me offer my sincere and enthusiastic compliments to everyone who participated this week! Whether the past seven days brought excitement, happiness and delight, or stress, crisis and struggle, you all made your best efforts and continued to learn and grow. That is worth celebrating!
Since a number of participants were faced with difficult situations, unexpected challenges and other struggles this week, I want to highlight a pair of Q&A sessions where Dr. Lisle addresses similar situations and concerns -
Dr. Doug Lisle: Food Addiction, Emotional Eating, Weight Loss (Part 1), Webinar 05/12/16
Dr. Doug Lisle: Food Addiction, Emotional Eating, Weight Loss (Part 2), Webinar 06/23/16
This two-part webinar covers a range of topics, but many of the concepts Dr. Lisle discusses are quite applicable to managing stress, dealing with strong emotions, and supporting and maintaining our pattern of behavior.
I'm also going to share part of a post I made in June, which I believe offers some relevant thoughts for this week.
Mark Cooper wrote:Just because you are struggling, doesn't mean you are "broken" or something is wrong with you! These are HARD changes to make and, especially in the beginning, they might not feel very good at all.I think people tend to underestimate how much that toxic food environment is stacked against all of us. The convenience stores, groceries and restaurants are replete with calorie rich, ultra-processed, unhealthy "foods," supported by an unceasing (and increasingly targeted) advertising machine. Untold dollars and resources are expended devising and presenting more and more insidious "food traps" to ensnare us. No wonder it's a struggle! The problem isn't you! As Dr. McDougall would say, "It's the food!" Taking all that into account, it seems essential that we stack the deck in our favor. The people who are able to successfully practice this WOE long-term, the people who make adherence "look easy" have actually invested enormous amounts of time and effort to shift the balance to be as much in their favor as possible. They have a plan for how to succeed, tested by trial and error, time and effort. To paraphrase Jeff, "things may not always turn out the way we planned, but we increase our odds of success by planning to succeed." If we take it as a given that we can't be successful, or don't try, we are planning to fail. This lifestyle only starts to feel "easy" after all that work has been put into making it so. Don't fault yourself when this is hard, but don't fool yourself into thinking it will ever get easy without putting in A GREAT DEAL of work.JeffN wrote:As Dr Lisle says, part of the problem is that when in the pleasure trap, doing the wrong thing feels so good and doing the right thing doesn't feel good." Even when one finds success, exposure to the Pleasure Trap can very easily put someone right back there.
We live in a very toxic food environment where there is very little social and environmental support for what we do. This is not always easy for everyone to deal successfully with.
When things are feeling hard, and setbacks occur, treat yourself with compassion and forgiveness for the past, try to be open to what can be learned, and do the best you can to keep working at it.
As Jeff has said many times
JeffN wrote:We only ask you do your best, not perfection.
Take care and have an advantageous week of growth and development!