Tigermon wrote:I realize it is Monday, but I did weigh on Friday, June 1st. My weight was 162 lbs. My goal is to lose 20 pounds. I am new to this forum and hope that I continue to participate (I am not the best at online forums).
Welcome Tigermon!
Excellent...I see you're already off and running. Very best wishes for the week.
I hope that you continue to participate too! That is a commitment in and of itself that many people don't give enough thought to.
(This next little bit isn't directed at just you or your comment, more inspired by it, because myself and many many others grapple with this issue of consistent adherence, or as you referred to it continuity of participation)
We commit to eating the right foods, we commit to adding some activity....
...and when those commitments start to unravel, we back off, or as I used to call it ...just fade away for awhile (aka procrastinate).
I think commiting to showing up is truly as important to commiting to the diet. It's a foundational part of your (our) success, because some of us flounder about for quite some time as we slowly circle in on all of the very different individual changes we need to mentally agree to and then practice until we habituate to them. Even small obstacles can stall the process of behaviour change.
To make all of the necessary dietary changes in one fell swoop, and adhere to them IS the fastest way to get to a weight loss goal. But, if you are unable to do that at this time, then by continuing to participate (while still working through your own experiments), you are at least removing the extra time in between the experiments. If you commit to continuing to check-in then it begins to feel like a waste of time to not just get back to on track as soon as you catch yourself diverging.
Fall down, get up, fall down, get up. No more sitting in the dust!
XO