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Even if you touch just one person, it will be well worth it, Doc.
pundit999 wrote:Even if you touch just one person, it will be well worth it, Doc.
StarchHEFP wrote:pundit999 wrote:Even if you touch just one person, it will be well worth it, Doc.
Thank you for this! Just the kind of inspiring words I needed.
StarchHEFP wrote:
Should I just give it all up and just write the pill prescriptions and be on my way?
I've been called "too extreme" by other doctors and been told that lifestyle change does not work anyway, and I should be more mainstream and reasonable. I've been told even to tone down my anti-cigarette and anti-alcohol advice as even that's too extreme.
StarchHEFP wrote:
Should I just give it all up and just write the pill prescriptions and be on my way?
I've been called "too extreme" by other doctors and been told that lifestyle change does not work anyway, and I should be more mainstream and reasonable. I've been told even to tone down my anti-cigarette and anti-alcohol advice as even that's too extreme.
StarchHEFP wrote:Should I just give it all up and just write the pill prescriptions and be on my way?
I've been called "too extreme" by other doctors and been told that lifestyle change does not work anyway, and I should be more mainstream and reasonable. I've been told even to tone down my anti-cigarette and anti-alcohol advice as even that's too extreme.
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roundcoconut wrote:StarchHEFP, I wanted to offer you a few thoughts on how you see your patients and your practice.
Mostly, I'd encourage you to think of all the different frameworks in which you could see your non-plant-based patients, and then ask yourself which frameworks are going to be the most effective for you as a practitioner.
I'll say it like this: Let's say I'm a kindergarten teacher. And every day I go into work, and I read to my students. And let's say, I really do a good job of picking out wonderful books for the kids and bringing the stories to life, and my students really LIKE coming to my kindergarten.
Well, let's say that I start to get this idea of, "Every year, I read to these kids. And every year, none of them makes enough gains in their reading to be reading a chapter book by the time they are in first grade. Well, this totally blows. These kids don't REALLY want to read, and maybe I'll just give them lollipops and let them beat the crap out of each other on the playground."
So -- here's the thing I'm saying. You MAY want to adopt a different framework, whereby instead of seeing your patients as hostile, unwilling people who WILL NOT quit smoking or adopt potatoes instead of donuts -- you could see them as people who are more kindergarteners than sixth graders (need a lot more exposure and training before their solo efforts can take place).
OR: You can realize that you're kinda burnt out on these kindergarteners, and move up to teaching 6th grade. Or even tutor some kids in the 6th grade. Because I imagine it CAN get old, perpetually offering your patience and your education, to people who are just little seedlings, and won't show any efforts at first. So maybe you DO work with far more patients who already have the exposure to a plant-based lifestyle and are ready to put down some roots and grow some shoots? This would mean, maybe giving some talks locally that will put you in touch with people wanting the kind of practitioner you are. And really putting the word out, that you are looking for patients who want to get off their meds with lifestyle medicine.
Mostly, I am saying that, I see the beginnings of burnout in some of the words you wrote. And I don't think burnout is necessary -- I think you choose it, with your perspectives, frameworks, and decisions -- and can UNCHOOSE it with new perspectives, new frameworks, new decisions.
I dunno! There's your unsolicited advice for the day! Never go a day without getting some unsolicited advice, right???
Please know that I am pulling for you, and think we need both kinds of practitioners, and you just need to decide which one lights your fire. If you have a heart for these sad-sack cases who have no clue why eating all that bacon isn't a great idea, then wonderful. If you are being called to deal with people on the plant-based bath, then equally wonderful.
Curious what you think!
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