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BlueHeron wrote:Food is pretty well established in our culture as a reward. Imagine someone saying, "I've been really good lately, so I'm going to smoke a few cigarettes and have unprotected sex. Then I'm going to drive without my seat belt."
Tatterhood wrote:They are willing to go vegetarian, and even vegan to a certain extent, but of course, that includes oily foods, like hummus and stir fries, and guacamole, and all the high ticket veggie foods usually served up at a typical veggie feast.
Here's where I'm getting heat. My husband is asking me if I'm going to be cooking my "special food" for myself the entire three days. He sees it as anti-social and drawing unnecessary attention to myself. Why can't I just go along with the program while they are here. Why do I have to just eat those damned steamed veggies and beans/potatoes and rice..he asks.
I can't go off this for three days. I don't want to go off it for one day or meal. These family members won't care one way or another, frankly, but for some reason, he thinks that I'm going to be making a big deal about it, when I haven't and I won't. Not sure where the anxiety is coming from.
My guess is that we've both gotten a lot of negative feedback from friends with the veganism, and now, I'm taking it a step further, so he's finding this extra difficult...like I've pushed too far. I get tired of having to explain food choices to people all of the time, but I've gotten kind of used to it. Or, I've just come up with one-liners to give information that's helpful but not engaging so I can eat in peace.
Tatterhood wrote:Having my back against the wall in social situations with food is nothing new to me. What is new to me is having my own family (daughter did this to me recently, too) being hostile about the no/low fat thing. Being a vegan practically makes me(and my husband) social outcasts. I can't tell you how many times I have to defend my lunch when someone at work says something provocative while I'm just trying to eat in peace. Provocative being..."I just can't imagine never eating bacon!" I try to either employ deep breathing techniques, or if I'm feeling particularly snarky I'll just say, "You need to develop your imagination, I suppose."
I've bent to other's offerings of food, or food situations in order to make other people feel more at ease more times than I wish to admit. People always feel uneasy around WFPB eaters...or vegans...no matter how you name it, if you're eating more healthfully, you just make others feel crappy about themselves. There's a moral superiority that comes with it, even when you try very hard not to judge. So, I've tried to relax a bit, be more "human" around others, but usually end up feeling worse about the fact that I did that just to save their sense of self by giving up my own. That's messed up. Not going to do that anymore.
I happen to love this WOE. Call me crazy, but I don't feel like I'm missing out on anything. Losing ten pounds of excess fat is huge for me at 5'3"! And my food tastes awesome. This is the easiest, most sustainable weight loss endeavor I've ever attempted. I've only ever let myself get 15-20 pounds overweight. Other methods for weight loss have been foolish and unsustainable. This goes hand-in-hand with my ethics, it's super easy, it's delicious and super healthy, and I'm never, ever hungry! I feel like someone gave me the key to the kingdom!
Perhaps you can try to menu plan dishes where the base is on-plan for you, but the "add-ons" at the table and sides can be richer food that appeals to others. Then nobody really notices. For example, last night at my sister's, we had tacos. I made beans, my sister cooked some meat, we had crunchy taco shells and plain corn tortillas, salsa, avocado, cheese, cabbage, etc. You could make yourself a SAD taco or a compliant one. Nobody is excluded, and nobody stands out. With a little imagination you could do something similar with baked potatoes, pasta, or an Asian menu with assorted dipping sauces.
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Tatterhood wrote:I just listened to the interview with Dr. Lisle and Chef AJ. It was about the self-esteem mechanism. Very interesting, because I just came up against that, too, when I saw some colleagues who didn't even comment about my having lost 10 pounds. It was disappointing to say the least.
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