AlphaFemale wrote:However, if I'm at someone else's home and I'm offered meat, I eat a bit of it.
Well, this would be an issue for an ethical vegan. As would eating meals with meat eaters, because it could be construed as participating to some degree in their practice. But it's a separate issue/debate.
As for orthorexia, I agree that some people may develop OCD about eating if they are prone to OCD. However, OCD would involve some level of distress, anxiety, or dysfunction, as do all psychological problems. Not just the choices themselves.
With all the garbage and mis/dis-information out there, reading labels and being concerned about food content is a rational response to the environment. Personally, I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to avoid all animal and refined products, either. Aside from ethics, one might want to avoid them because they are triggers for cravings or overeating, or because one wants to be as healthy as possible.
The appalling part, though, is the defense of meat and (especially dairy). In this day and age, you'd think nobody would believe that drivel anymore.
It's easy to be a naive idealist. It's easy to be a cynical realist. It's quite another thing to have no illusions and still hold the inner flame. -- Marie-Louise von Franz