Thanks for your kind words, Melba and Glenn! It really made me happy to read your welcoming lines!
I already stumbled across your journals yesterday and wish you all the best for your journeys! You can be very proud of what you've achieved so far!
Now I'm even more embarassed to admit that I screwed up already....,
I was so much looking forward to dinner yesterday, but then I got stressed by many little things around me, still managed to prepare brown rice and vegetables for myself while I cooked pasta and tomato sauce for my kids, but somehow I really struggeled with seasoning the sauce to go with my dish - so it did not turn out tasty or appealing AT ALL..., I became mad at myself about not being able to prepare a reasonable McDougall-dinner, and watched my kids "indulging" in pasta with tomatoe sauce..., I began to pick same noodles from their plates..., one bite led to another..., soon I found myself in front of the shelf stuffed with sweets, cookies etc. - I ate so much that my stomach hurt...
, plus some cheese - just to make everything even worse...
Well..., this little story unfortunately is the story of my life with reard to eating..., I really have problems to be kind to myself when making a mistake - and it often ends in uncontrolled binging until I feel completely useless...
I know that there are many people out there with the same problem - but still I can't figure a way out of this vicious cycle.
Well, this morning (after sleeping terribly - who would have guessed) I dusted myself off and started all over. I'm still embarassed about failing on the first day trying..., but I have also drawn some conclusions:
- I should have just eaten the pasta with my kids in the first place (even though it was white pasta; it would have been better to eat white pasta and be satisfied than stubbornly sticking to the rules 100%...)
- I need to get recepies for simple delicious sauces and salsas
- I should prepare foods in advance or buy some canned stuff to be prepared at all times
- I definitely need to practice being kinder to myself and shouldn't spoil the whole project whenever I encounter the first difficulty...
The hardest part right now seems to be patience - I feel so uncomfortable in my own skin that I would give a lot for just waking up 20lbs lighter and "feeling" that the path I've chosen is right... - instead I feel very insecure.
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Well..., today I was very cautious - I ate:
Oats with soy-rice milk and two bananas
Vegetable curry with leek and yellow bell pepper with brown rice
1 Banana, 1 Coffee
I did not have dinner today..., I know - it's not good to skip a meal..., but after yesterday I just didn't feel like it...
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Good night for now - I'm looking forward to my next day "with Dr. McDougall" tomorrow and hope to "get there" step by step...
Oh, and two more questions, in case anyone reads this:
- what are your favourite simple selfmade sauces for vegetable dishes...?
- does anyone still drink coffee from time to time - and what is your recommendation as a cow milk substitute for cappucinos...? (I tried soy, almond and rice mik - and did not like any of these because of their sweet taste...)