wycoff, congratulations on your impressive weight loss and continuing to be in the groove--that's great!! I'm short on time now, too, so this will be brief:
--I wouldn't recommended Tofurky. If I'm not mistaken, the 3rd or 4th ingredient is oil. Yes, we used to have it in the past, but your knowing it has oil--and in such a high quantity--could end up bothering you and mess up your groove. Also, I was able to sample some the other day and couldn't believe how salty it was; it was almost offensive after being used to lower salted foods. I saw a recipe the other day + I'm thinking of trying to make my own. I have to look for it + I will share it.
--Except for the tofu, which really isn't too processed anyway (some will disagree), this loaf is very WFPB:
https://blog.fatfreevegan.com/2010/11/t ... -loaf.html It's very good! Just don't expect it to look or taste like a turkey or a Tofurky. By the way, Trader Joe's has their own "turkey", but I put it down after seeing oil in the ingredients.
--I skimmed all the posts, so I may not have seen this correctly. At this point I wouldn't worry (sounds heartless but there's truth to it) about providing healthier substitutes for others since you're not hosting the dinner. The most important thing is that you take care of yourself and stay in your groove. Most people, though surprised with the new less of you, do not want to give up their favorite "treats", especially for Thanksgiving. Don't be surprised if not everyone will be happy for you and if they even try to underhandedly sabotage you ("But it's your favorite!", "I made it just for you." "One bite won't hurt." "Come on, it's Thanksgiving--join in the fun!"). I've seen it where close siblings and friends feel very threatened when they realize that if you continue in your weight loss, you will soon not be the biggest one around and
they will be--after decades of being big, but the smaller one.
I'm sorry, this post has gotten off track, but I agree with Ltldogg. Rather eat your everyday foods than to slide down the slippery slope. Believe me, I am talking from experience. I, too, have had great successes for months on end only to slip and fall...even though beforehand I felt rock-solid and thought how could it possibly happen?!?! It can, and it does. I'm not saying that this wil happen to you, because there have been plenty of times I didn't slip and fall, but I'd rather you error on the side of caution.
Really have to get going, but I'll look for that recipe....