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eXtremE wrote: I have tried to get my mother to make the switch to a WFPB diet like I have done but she refuses. I have told her all the positive health benefits I have received since I have been on the diet in an effort to motivate her but it falls on deaf ears. She has numerous health problems that could be helped by this diet. She is almost 70 years old.
Yeah, I hear you loud and clear Julie. It is a personal choice. I am not in a relationship currently but if I was and my partner wanted to eat this way, so be it. I once dated a girl for several years who smoked. I mean I still loved her and smoking had nothing to do with the breakup of the relationship. Most people want those they love and care for to be as healthy as possible but once many ppl are addicted to the SAD, they find any other way of eating almost impossible to do. Sometimes, it takes a tragic even like a heart attack or a cancer DX to force (scare) some ppl to change.JulieS wrote:When I first began this WOE, my DH was full on board 3 meals a day. And after 3 weeks all his lipid panel results were within normal range. However, then poof, in the last month he bailed! He will still eat a WFPB dinner that I cook us, but whenever I am not around, he eats SAD. I told him that I would only say this once to him...that he is still damaging his body and putting himself at risk of getting chronic diseases if he eats SAD part-time. Cutting back on SAD will not help him unfortunately. He heard me loud and clear but continues to eat SAD lunches, etc. Forget it when we have to dine out. He is all over the SAD menu items! But, I can't push anymore, as I've already made him watch and read lots of videos and books, so it is his adult choice.
Wow, this is really great nicoles that you have been able to make such a positive impact on the lives of the people you love who love you back. We all want the best not only for ourselves but the people we love too.nicoles wrote:When I started it was just me; although my husband was supportive, he was not on board for himself. He was skeptical that this diet was healthy, despite or perhaps because of all the purported benefits.
Watching me re-gain health and lose weight, in combination with watching a few videos, turned him around slowly, ad now he is finally fully on board, a zealot! He is far more inclined to preach the dietary gospel to people than I am.
My parents also changed their diet to this WOE, after my Dad was diagnosed with a heart condition and pre-diabetes and I sent him that really convincing video of the atherosclerosis reversal that Dr Esselstyn shows in one of his presentations. They had already seen my improvements over a period of about 6 months, and were much more open to the idea.
My father-in-law had a heart attack about a year ago, and then, after seeing me and my husband improve our health and lose weight, and sending him Prevent and Reverse Heart Disease to read, both he and my MIL switched their diet.
However, the shifts are not as total as mine: my parents, in-laws and husband all still eat meat and dairy occasionally, even still. I am the only one who has not since I began.
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