I have to mention, I am WILDLY unimpressed with the ethos of “Throw out your scale! Go by feel! Don’t be ruled by a number!”
It’s not as though we ALL need to use scale weight as one of our metrics to guide us, but each of us probably needs SOME metrics to guide us. Or else we are probably fooling ourselves!
It’s funny, because when we’ve had a lot of indiscretions, of COURSE we don’t want to step on the scale — this is human nature. We don’t particularly enjoy seeing the impact of our negative behaviors, on our body weight.
Nobody really loves facing the music after several dietary indiscretions! It’s like getting online and facing the music of what your bank balance is, if you know you’ve been impulse shopping but wishing it wouldn’t catch up with you. Of COURSE our indiscretions follow us around — both financially and nutritionally.
Of course, there ARE other metrics to use, and it is probably a mistake for most of us, to only have ONE metric. We can have multiple strategies to improve our health, and not all of them show up on the scale. If you begin to work out, that is absolutely GREAT for your heart, your legs and your lungs, but is not necessarily going to manifest as pounds lost, at least without carefully managing other factors also.
So, it’s probably good to have several avenues of feedback, and not to engage in too much wishful thinking.
In my own life, I DID step on the scale today, and I am 114, which is six pounds over my preferred high weight of 108. Six pounds is not a disaster, and I feel like myself again. I’m pretty sure (based on how my thighs looked and how my clothes were fitting), that I peaked earlier in the week at 116 or 117.
This sounds like a low weight, but just for clarity, I should mention that I have a very slight frame. Like, I have never worn grown-up sized bra in my life (Training Bras for Life!). I am perfectly flat-chested and I am very slim from the waist up (no matter what my weight), and yet if I put on those ten or fifteen pounds, I wind up with heavy, heavy legs. Really unpleasant!
Back to what I was saying:
Metrics to keep ourselves honest are things like: “Are you still working out? Did you get to the gym this week? Did you break a sweat during a few of your sessions?
Another metric for me personally is, “Do you have a fasting window these days, or have you been eating from sun-up to sun-down? Are you giving your body any time dig into that stored body fat? On a scale of 1 to 10, how full are you when you start eating again, on average?”
And I DO see the magic of using scale weight as another metric. The scale doesn’t lie. Sure, the scale measures the poop in your colon that’s on it’s way out, but the scale also tells you how long you’ve been on the straight and narrow. Believe me, I KNOW that it is part of our human nature to want to go back to giving ourselves little sugary treats, even after 8 hours of making good food decisions. The scale kind of reflects that back to us, if we’ve been making good decisions for two hours, and “rewarding ourselves” several times a week for “how good we’ve been”. (Lots of sarcasm! Because believe me, I can be irrational here.)
OH WELL. That’s a wonderful ramble-fest.