More thoughts:
I DO believe that skills are transferable, from one area of a person's life, to another. And because I tend to be smart with money, it is easy for me to draw analogies across the two disciplines, to get ideas on how to do this eating thing even better.
The analogy that occurs to me, is that hunger is in many ways a finite resource, just like your paycheck is. So, just as we would not squander our paycheck, or blow massive portions of your weekly income on stuff that isn't very important or valuable to us, we can look at hunger in the same way.
Thus, I am starting to be the kind of person who
does not squander her hunger, but rather spends it carefully and wisely -- often on foods that are "inexpensive" (i.e. calorie dilute) and help me to make the most of my "hunger budget".
This is a really interesting thought to me! Basically, I'm starting to believe that hunger is a hard-won commodity, which represents a substantial input of activity and/or patience.
If you're working at a sedentary job, then your bodily hunger represents many hours of abstaining from sloppy eating (while your body faithfully pumps your heart, operates your brain and guides the activities of your organs). This is really so much like getting a small paycheck from a low-paying job -- there's not a ton of money to spend, and it doesn't represent any hard or intensive work, but it DOES represent many many hours of time that you can't get back.
Or, by contrast, if you do a lot of hard physical labor all day (not many people, but perhaps SOMEONE fits this category), then it's like have a high-paying job, then you have a little bit more in your budget, but that "money" is representative of some actual WORK you've done to earn that right to eat.
So, I am seeing hunger as a commodity that I am learning to use carefully, just as I use my money carefully.
Of course, this metaphor extends well to the idea that eating when not hungry is a form of biological debt -- you are spending money from next week's paycheck, if you are digging into a nice pot of beans and rice that you have no biological hunger for. And wow, I am SOOOO averse to debt, whether financial or biological.
Isn't that a helpful belief system? Well, it's only helpful if you are good with money!
If not, then you would probably do well to come up with an analogy of something that you ARE good at. Like, if you are good with animals or children, then maybe a metaphor of raising a child or caring for a dog, would tap into your inner resources. Me, I suck with animals and children, so we are sticking with the metaphor of money for now!