Sirdle - LOL! Who needs glasses anyway, your version sounds much more fun.Thanks for weighing in. I'm thrilled to see that you are losing, all progress is good.
Cheers.
Chris - How did the reset go? Thank you for all of the links. I loved the pizza treadmill video, it's so true that you can't out-train a bad diet. Great loss this week, and best wishes getting acquainted with your new laptop.
Arewethereyet - How is it going? I'm sorry that I didn't respond sooner. I completely know where you're coming from with regards to both of the points that you made. That kind of back and forth can be so demoralizing. The other week Jeff Novick sent me an interesting article that is written for physicians looking to help their patients navigate barriers of long-term behaviour change. We can totally apply this to your situation and learn from it. It's called
A 'Stages of Change' Approach to Helping Patients Change Behaviour. The goal of the paper is to help doctors recognize at what point in the
Stages of Change Model their patient is after recommending lifestyle changes for disease management. They can then tailor these recommendations based on that information in order to meet a patient where they are in the process. One of these stages is
relapse and its important to recognize that for many of us its almost inevitable and just a part of the process, but we can learn to anticipate situations where we may slip up and devise strategies to have better success when challenged.
Figure 1 Lists a number of great questions that we can ask ourselves in order to examine and understand our motivation for wanting to change and what continues to stop us:
With regards to the weight loss group, if it helps keep you engaged and doesn't take away from time spent doing the prep work you need to do in order to successfully lose weight yourself, I say continue. The group, I'm sure, is well versed in how difficult continued weight loss and maintenance is and will not think less of you for being a fallible human who also struggles (that's exactly what I tell myself when I'm writing these posts for this group...lol). But, if it isn't working for you, this is when you may want to put yourself first and kindly and regretfully step down. Let us know how you're doing!
Anna - It is a long journey. I'm glad you are still making it with all of us. We can continue to learn from each other. This is just one part of our lives and its so important to remember our value in other domains.
Sue - You two are so cute...and you're so creative with the visual presentation of your food. I'm highly impressed with how well you did during your vacation, and you even got to spice up your wardrobe...woo hoo! Where are those pictures...lol? I'm so happy that your taste buds are coming around and you're enjoying salads happily. Here's an article I read (again from Jeff) about taste bud rehabilitation, that talks about just what you have been going through.
The Case for Taste Bud Rehab by Dr. David Katz. I love your closing, love and positive thoughts to you too!
Susan - How fabulous to hear about your knees. I'm so excited for you, it must be very motivating as you begin to feel better and better! Thank you for being a part of this community and Happy Fall!
Qwerty988 - Woah! What a month! Congratulations on your loss. Keeping it simple with potatoes and veggies has been a winning strategy for you. Sorry to hear you're not sleeping, and I hope it passes. Have a wonderful week.
BeHealthy - Great loss this week. Did your travels take you to both sides of the country? Though I'm interested in hearing about that, I'm even more interested in hearing about which soup recipes you find...lol! It truly is about the food for me. What are your favourite soups?
Talita - It can be tough to watch others eating things that you yourself choose not to (in order to reach your goals). It took me a very long time to get over some of my feelings about eating out with friends and watching them eat whatever they (and I) wanted and still be slim, while I
suffered with my "limited" choices. For me that feeling eventually went away; I realized that I had to choose between enjoying my new health and time with my friends without resentment or to choose the short lived pleasure of stimulating food that kept me from losing weight but satisfied me in that moment in time. This took a number of years. The temptations the foods trigger haven't completely gone away, but they are weaker. You are correct in thinking that controlling the environment will help with this. That may be a tall order, however, and I hope you are able to find a way to make it work in your home with your family. You are so close and are doing so well!