by bunsofaluminum » Tue Apr 14, 2015 11:29 am
So this feels like it is over. I haven't stuck with my challenge, for several reasons, and this will be my last post in this thread. The longest I went was seven days, right at the beginning. It reversed a GAINING trend, and restored my energy thank goodness, but it hasn't been enjoyable. As I disciplined myself to forge forward, with the thought "but it'll be over soon and just wait till you see the results" Well, that's diet mentality, and that isn't a good place to be, and i never was fully committed or I'd still be going strong, right? Since Easter, I've stepped off plan once a day at least. Not outrageously, but not MWL.
The one thing that I am doing consistently, is eating mindfully. No matter what I choose, I am slowing down, chewing every bite, turning off the internet/TV, putting down the book or magazine, and savoring my foods. Eating until I feel satisfied (not over full) and then stopping. I realized, when I couldn't stick with my challenge for more than a week, that my mind was not in the game, and my tastebuds, (appetite) was guiding my choices, rather than whether I felt hungry or not. This has been the fact whether eating 100% McDougall/MWL foods, or non-McDougall "treats" BTW. Whatever I have eaten, in the past year, I have over eaten.
Hopefully, slowing down and eating with gratitude and appreciation...and enjoyment...will change me and I can go forward with a different relationship with food. Don't get me wrong...I won't be eating animal protein or saute'ing stuff in fat, but if I'm out with friends and there are non-McDougall things on the table, (chips and salsa; fries; dessert) I am well aware that I will have a taste or two. That is just a fact of life at this time.
So, if I can slow down and really taste it, and stop when I feel satisfied (which happens after just a few "chips" or only a taste of "brownie") (seriously, try chewing a bite of brownie thoroughly and tasting it fully...you won't need or want much) I think I will be eating as healthy as I am able AT THIS TIME. Maybe full bore McDougalling will be my standard again some day. But in the meantime, I WILL be eating starch based, McDougall friendly foods...and I won't be turning down the occasional treat. My man likes to take me out to eat, and I want to eat out with him...so I think i have found a way to do that once in a while without sabotaging myself completely, and also without creating a fuss about what the chef prepares for my plate.
And with that, this "challenge" is over.
Best to all. I will check in at the journal page now and again.
JUST DON'T EAT IT
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