Stacey - I loved that talk, it's a great summary (the book is good too, but a couple of the chapters felt a bit repetitive...maybe that's to reinforce the points?). Best wishes with your application to the Masters program, how exciting for you to be going back to school. I would recommend, maybe, closing the door to thinking about those past troubles at school, after briefly reflecting on the reasons on why they occurred and where you could change your approach. What contributing factors did you have control over and which ones didn't you? Overwhelmed? Take less courses. Not enough time to study? Cut back work hours and look for help with other responsibilities, etc. That sort of stuff.
Idgie - And another woot from me! Good effort this week, thanks for checking in.
Marilyn - Welcome back from vacation! I love the fall colours too, and if the upper part of lower Michigan is any where near Southwestern Ontario, then I can also picture how beautiful it must have been. With regards to getting back on track, as Dr. Lisle talks about in the Pleasure Trap (and Cram Circuit) webinars, your body may make things difficult at first, but keep your resolution clear in your mind and try to fight the cravings for a week or so and then things get so much easier (as I know that you know). With a dedicated mind and heart you can totally do this.
Kathy - XO. It can be mentally exhausting. You have worked very hard at this for many many years and I know you have some great strategies to get you through this. Fall back on them, trust yourself, and resist the cravings as best that you can in order to lessen their pull on your mind. You can do this!
Lindsey - Yaaaay! I am SO happy for you. Look at how quickly you got there. A great plan, Dr. McDougall's MWL, combined with your great resolve did the trick! You are a great example of what consistent effort (without worrying about perfection) can do. Happy Birthday for Sunday! What did you end up buying?
Rosey - I'm with you! What I keep telling myself is slow and steady may not win the race, but it does finish the race...in its own good time.
Solid loss this week!
Stacey - Hi again! No worries that you don't weigh yourself and just want to check in each week for accountability. Figuring out how you can comfortably follow the
food guidelines is most important. I'm not particularly fond of weighing myself this often - like you - but Jeff Novick has a pretty convincing discussion in his forum indicating that most people do better by keeping track in this way (
To Weigh or Not to Weigh). It's not for everyone though and I am by no means trying to convince you.
The link is for the benefit of others reading who may want to see what Jeff has to say about it. Best wishes this week and enjoy your writing process. (Oh, I just saw the next post from Idgie...that's some good support!)
Idgie -
Alice - Wonderful loss! Be proud of it, water or fat loss. As others have said your pasta e fagioli sounds wonderful (the name is fancy enough to be enticing on its own...LOL). Please do share the recipe. With regards to Dr. Lisle's presentation, for that specific webcast you needed to be signed up in advance in order to watch it. I was able to catch it later on when
FoK sent out a replay link, and it was a talk on the
Pleasure Trap. (I've linked a different one, but it has much of the same information).
Stephanie - Thank you for your kind words. It is lovely to know I can reach out to you and that there is this group to get through the holiday challenges with. I'm feeling cautiously confident, I navigated a couple of unexpected traps this week including my young son handing me a large bag of gummy candy that he got at school and saying he didn't want it...I drove that candy home, I placed it in the basket above the fridge where I put slightly tempting items for the rest of the family (so I don't have to see them every time I open a cupboard - I tend to forget about what's up there, but not this time). I couldn't bring myself to throw it out. I had debates in my head about that candy and how maybe this time I could eat it and not end up half-way back in the Pleasure Trap. (Sadly those still happen) Thankfully, I wasn't in the Pleasure Trap, so that bought me time and enough resistance to not eat it. (Admittedly I did this by giving them to one of my teenagers who happily gobbled them up - I haven't decided if that was a bad mom moment or not, but it is what it is and I DIDN'T eat them).
Your soup sounds delicious. I'm not familiar with the brand NSA? Does it stand for something? I think I'm going to buy some poultry seasoning, it is bringing back delicious memories of soups eaten in childhood.
Mark - Great diligence on maintenance. I'm so happy to hear that your pain is manageable and you're healing up otherwise and can get back to exercising that you love. My thoughts will be with you on Monday!