GlennR wrote:Even if these people have bodies that are not in any physical pain, what kind of lives are they leading? Are they having new experiences? Are they forming healthy human connections, and are they strengthening the connections they already have? Are they growing as people? Are they enjoying their days, and are they excited about their lives?
My in-laws are in their nineties and have pain, less mobility, ... but they have no desire to move on. They enjoy their books and their tv shows and if they are less active now, less social, who are any of us to judge their quality of life? I've lived with psoriatic arthritis and pain for four decades but I wouldn't want to miss a minute of my life.
I don't think any of us can speak for others.
I don't think so too:) Addiction is a body, mind and social disease. Even if someone has healthy eating habits (in the viewer's perspective) they mentally, and emotionally can be unhealthier than someone without. Again it is all perspective as in the Whole Picture, when you are at the top of the mountain you see all paths lead to the top. I love caregiving, and the preciousness of life is indescribable. When not rolling on the tiger's back, our heads are in the tiger's mouth. We all deal with life on life's terms. Age is irrelevant. Space and time is a construct of the brain. I just met a lady at 90, who published her first book. It is a child's book about dreaming about swimming with the dolphins becoming a reality.
Aloha, patty