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Lesliec1 wrote:It just takes a while. You'll get it after some time. You'll learn that most people don't care or that keeping a friend is more important. It took me a long time because I am opinionated and outspoken. Eventually, I learned to just shut my potato-hole. I only talk about my diet if someone asks me directly AND THEY NEVER DO. If someone starts going on about their meat diet, I try to not react but just change the subject.
Next time she talks about her regime, say "la la la la" inside your head so you don't hear the unsavory details.
roundcoconut wrote:How people eat is a lot like how people parent their children. Everyone's doing their best <cough cough>, and most are making a horrible mess of things.
Still, everyone you talk to will say they're a good parent, and we all nod like, "Of course you are, honey." You really can't say, "Your kids haven't learned any manners", "Your kids have a sense of entitlement" or "You give your kids no boundaries." These just aren't things you can say.
You know what's another parallel? Parents who have a horrible relationship with their kid will say, "I've tried everything", meaning they've tried every horrible idea talked about on mainstream talkshows.
And that''s how it is with food. People say they eat well, when they don't, and you're supposed to allow them their polite fictions. People say they've tried everything, which usually means they've modified their SAD diet in a few different ways, for a few different lengths of time, and that they've joined a gym or had a yoga class for some length of time. (I've never met anyone who says they've tried everything, who have actually tried a diet of whole natural foods -- it's just an idea they would ever think of on their own.)
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