I'm wondering how people feel about feast/cheat days or even for just one meal. I've been really true to the letter all summer, for about 6 weeks, and have lost 10 out of the 20 pounds I wish to lose. My husband and I have also been whole foods, plant-based vegans for the last three or so years. Before this summer, I used more added oil, avocados, nuts, and processed foods like pasta and breads than I should have, which is why I needed to make the switch to lose weight. I had simply gotten too heavy. Too many added fats and calories. Not enough exercise.
So, back to my question: Occasionally, my husband still thinks I should "treat" myself to a cheat meal. He thinks I'm letting my perfectionism take hold of me. And while I can somewhat see his point, I don't see, or want to see food as a treat. In fact, it's that kind of thinking that I feel is detrimental to long-term health. I'm in a phase of retraining my tastes to enjoy less bang. The longer I go without occasional restaurant food, or even foods with added oils like stir-fries or guacamole, the less I want them. If I'm going to treat myself with anything, I think it should be something like a new, pretty ceramic bowl for my steamed veggies. Or new workout shorts. Something that's less ephemeral and more in line with my goals or that will enhance my gustatory experiences.
And, honestly, I think it takes a while to break bad habits. If I go back to those things too soon, I might think...oh well, that one little bit of ______ didn't hurt me, maybe I can just have it again.... I know how quickly I can be led down the garden path.
In fact, I hate to break it to him, but even after I do lose the next 10 pounds, I think I might never go back to the other WOE. Maybe an occasional meal out, but I'm not going to return to the stir-fries or pasta sauce with olive oil, all of which got me into this mess to begin with. This is not a diet in the traditional sense. It's another layer to WFPB eating. It's removing the fats and paying attention to amounts of food one consumes in a day.
Does this sound like perfectionism? Mindfulness? Unrealistic?
Thoughts?