I try not to respond to things people say about me (because everyone is entitled to their position) but I'm also tired of everyone forwarding me these McD threads asking me to respond
I am not anorexic. Accusing me (or Chef AJ or anyone else, public figure or not) does a disservice to the many people who actually do.
With respect to comments made by Gypsy and Beth Ann, I'm sorry they had a bad experience -- I'm completely surprised and saddened because I thought both left on good terms.
Here was my email to Beth Ann:
Hi -- I wanted to message you directly.
I understand where you're coming from -- you feel I shouldn't have suggested finding a new doctor (it sounds like you do have a great team) and I see that was probably premature. A downside to my job is I typically only see the worst of the medical industry, so I do on autopilot telling people their options and the need for a second opinion.
Colon cancer is something near to my heart -- my grandmother dying from it as I watched and could do nothing is one of the things that sent me down the plant-based path.
I would like to move on, and don't feel continuing to discuss it on threads in the group is healthy for you, me, and everyone else sitting on the sidelines. Someone emailed me that it made the feel comfortable yesterday--reminded them of their parents chronic fighting and divorce and made them feel anxious that they had to pick sides.
Again, I'm sorry that you feel miffed or angry or disappointed. That was not my intention. I was just trying to help and I am glad that you have found a doctor team that you like and is supporting you in the ways you need.
Feel free to email [my personal address]
When Beth Ann replied to me, she mentioned having hard times eating certain foods (many that are on the meal plans), and that was now doing something different.. she'd bought membership when she was feeling better, and now she was having to make all these substitutions.
My heart went out to her, and realizing that she probably wouldn't be able to use the plans, I wrote:
"I absolutely want what is best for you, but am not sure that it is my mentorship or the program that I offer. I've talked to my team and they're going to give you a partial refund, which should process in the next hour.
I'm sorry it didn't work out for you - and wish you good health with the road ahead. It sounds like you are finding something that works for you, which is the most important."
She wrote back wishing me the best and me her, so I'm very sad to see it wasn't as positive as I thought.
Re: what Gypsy said, I am changing the meal plan based on feedback but not because people had a problem with the 1200 calories -- most people actually still want that. We're just improving the format and making it easier for people who don't want to count calories or want more calories.
I was also more than happy to accomodate Gypsy. In fact, that is our standard protocol. If we change the plans (and we do a few times a year to improve them) we always give out past plans to people who have prepaid if they don't like the new format.
My tweets and posts are often scheduled way ahead (or posted by my team) and we aren't passive aggressive--but I know that I've seen things on social media, and thought they were about me.
My team and I don't delete opposing comments or even negative ones towards me -- we only delete comments that might cause confusion or problems --which was the case there. It wasn't that the comment was opposing but it was saying I was changing things I actually wasn't, which was creating more confusion.
And finally
I have been a speaker at McD weekend and many other conferences. While I am not a medical doctor (and don't pretend to be) I have (and hopefully will continue) to help people transition to a plant based diet. I don't sell information, or a diet plan, I provide shopping lists and recipes -- and I help teach people to live a plant-based lfestyle based on the McD principal.
Everyone has to make a living--Dr. McD included, its why he has his weekends
I started the meal plans because people asked for them, but more importantly to help pay for my website and my time -- I answer 1000s of emails a month and love doing that -- but no one is giving me a job to do that or paying me to, so what's where the meal plans come in. They allow me to continue my outreach.
Anyway, thank you for allowing me to explain myself and share my view of various events. I won't be following this thread (I don't think that would be healthy for me) but feel free to email me, I'm always an open to talking.
and finally, I'd like to again apologize to Beth Ann and Gypsy. I'm so sorry you felt this way and had that experience. I hope someday I can change that.