katgirl55 wrote:
At some point in my journey, I learned that throwing money at the problem did nothing but make me more poor. I tend to buy the latest books or DVDs only to be disappointed when magic doesn't happen. Maybe this is what Patty talks about when she says oil and money are the last two seats on the addiction bus?
Lindsay hasn't reached bottom:) The learning curve is very deep. The Anorexia learns to recast the voice that is telling her not to eat, as the Over-Complusive eater, the Alcoholic and Drug Addict learn to recast. And with legal drugs it just means you have to go a little deeper, it is not the doctor:) In AA they have a saying, "You can't smell a gambler", and that is where there actions speak louder then words and where putting principles before personalties comes in. As there is a difference between cash register money and emotional money. It is like the Emperor without any clothes. I feel Dr. McDougall is like Dr. Bob and Bill Wilson of AA, because the addiction (whatever substance) and money stops when starch centered. Why? Because starch allows discernment to happen. And then there is no greater high then paying it forward, because the begin all and end all doesn't happen. I am you:)
Aloha, patty