At first I couldn't tell if everybody was UNHAPPY with the idea that your skin can absorb stuff ya put on it, or HAPPY about that...
... I guess if your EFAs are gotten that way, good, and it doesn't store up like fat eaten, good too, is what everybody's saying?
I never needed lotions, etc., when I lived in a more humid climate... of course, everybody that lives where I do now seems to think it IS humid here, but I don't. I've needed something on my skin up here, but never did where it REALLY was more humid...so I think, to me, it seems one's climate is a factor, maybe one's diet too... I don't know. All I know is my skin got dry for the first time in my life as soon as we lived here... also, we were not in air-conditioning much until we wored in air-conditioned buildings, for the first time ever, after moving up here. The heat is bad too... a kettle of water on the woodstove works much better than these awful HVAC systems in the buildings in big cities.
As far as putting stuff on yer body... a few years back, I read something Doug Graham said that made sense to me and eventually that advice began to settle into my own skin... he said something like don't ever put anything on your body that's not edible.
I was attempting to follow that advice, and had trouble figuring out what's really in soaps, not to mention the horrible shampoos, etc. Finally, now I've been making my own soap, which is all "edible oils," except for the small amount of castor oil in it too, supposedly very good for skin, though, and of course the lye, not particularly edible, but transformed by the saponification process, and it's what's put into corn to make hominy anyhow... so, while I would not eat lye itself, it seems okay after going through certain processes.
So besides oils on the skin, I make our soap now too, and we use that on our hair too... works out great! It ain't easy, in our day and age, to try to get away from all the doggone chemicals everywhere!
By the way, I learned to make soap by watching videos on expertvillage.com... t'ain't that hard...even kinda fun... I found the video of the lady who uses water pipe tubes for molds, and we just make plain, basic recipe and cut bars from the pipes.