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 Post subject: HELP PLEASE! Celiac Disease? Pulling the plug on grandpa.
PostPosted: Fri Oct 21, 2011 3:01 am 
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No one believes me and the doctors say because his small intestine wasn't infected (after weeks on a gluten free feeding tube that they put him on without us asking) he doesn't have CD. This is tearing me apart inside and I at least need some closure if I'm wrong so bear with me because this is a complex situation.

Symptoms along the 3 month journey: Walking Pneumonia, Kidney Failure, CDiff, aortic valve stenosis (the supposed culprit), colitis (supposed 90% destruction of the colon, pushed for surgery, ended up not needing it). NOW: White blood cell count won't go down, kidney dialysis every day.

He has been the healthiest old man we've ever known (75 years old). The doctors told him he was born with one of the 3 aortic valve flaps missing and that it's causing this whole dilemma.

6 months ago he got sick. We didn't know it was walking pneumonia. He finally ended up going to the emergency room and had low blood pressure. They gave him medicine and he had kidney failure so they sent him to an ICU. He has been a "miracle" case all along in the eyes of all the doctors of the 5 hospitals he's been to now. Although I'm 99.9% sure it's just the gluten-free assisted feeding he has had.

I've lost count over these painful 3 months but I believe it's been 3 times now that he's gotten better (to the point where he can eat) on their gluten-free feeding tube formulas and electrolyte only feeding. 3 (?) times now he's been fed his first dairy and gluten infested meal and gone straight back to the ICU.

So this time he's been on the feeding tube and isn't getting better. I hadn't been there in a few weeks because drama broke out and I'm considered an idiot to my whole family because of this but anyway..I go in there the other day and find out they've had him on a feeding formula that has powdered egg yolk in it.... I wanted to explode especially since I had just googled something from his room on my phone that says oxidized cholesterol usually contains gluten.

CD or not, this high fat, high protein diet is killing him. They took him off the food completely now and are trying to get us to let him go. I want an alternative feeding product but how does a peon like me make a difference anywhere? :( My words fall on the ears like dust in the wind.

ALSO, his daughter I believe also has CD. She was diagnosed with epilepsy at a young age and became lactose intolerant in her early adult life after having a surgery I can't remember which. She has anxiety disorder and now is having IBS and thinks she might have Chrohn's disease from the symptoms of her friend. She's in her 50's now. She also can't have molasses which I could only trace to CD.

We're praying for a miracle but I believe the miracle's not going to happen without a second opinion which I'm hoping to obtain here. Thank you to anyone who reads this post and so much as says a silent prayer. God bless.
--Andy


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 Post subject: Re: HELP PLEASE! Celiac Disease? Pulling the plug on grandp
PostPosted: Fri Oct 21, 2011 7:26 am 
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Is it possible for you to have a private talk with the doctor, away from all the nay-saying relatives, to ask what is to be lost by giving GF the benefit of the doubt and trying it for awhile to see if it will again bring improvement? I'm so sorry for what you are going through and will pray that the doctors will give your grandpa a chance.

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 Post subject: Re: HELP PLEASE! Celiac Disease? Pulling the plug on grandp
PostPosted: Fri Oct 21, 2011 11:14 am 
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Probably not but today we are going in to talk to him and see if he wants us to keep trying or pull the plug and let him die within an hour or so. I'm pretty sure he doesn't want to die yet. He can basically nod his head or shake for no. Everyone's convinced he's going to be a vegetable, I'm not.
Thank you so much for your response and your prayers. It's good just to know I'm not alone in this war. I really don't understand why I couldn't convince them with excerpts and links to the NLM. Lol some things in life make no sense. :) Nothing here DOESN'T line up with CD though. I have complete faith in this, I'm just pretty sure no one would listen if someone rose from the dead on a gluten-free diet lol. ;) God bless.


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 Post subject: Re: HELP PLEASE! Celiac Disease? Pulling the plug on grandp
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What a difficult situation! I'm praying for you. *hugs*


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 Post subject: Re: HELP PLEASE! Celiac Disease? Pulling the plug on grandp
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Andy, I hope your grandpa is better today, strong enough to make his wishes known to his family. God Bless you for speaking up and trying your best to help him.

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 Post subject: Re: HELP PLEASE! Celiac Disease? Pulling the plug on grandp
PostPosted: Sat Oct 22, 2011 9:41 am 
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Thank you all so much. The doctors have been saying he's a goner for 3 months now and he keeps getting better but the doctors have finally gotten through with their negative nonsense and now no one has any faith left except me, and I have no faith that they'll give him a chance. Maybe I can help someone else in the future but seems everyone I try to help thinks I could float to the moon with all the hot air I'm full of :P
God bless McDougall and anyone else who can handle this crap lol...you have to really care about people to become and outcast. I guess it pays off in the end.


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 Post subject: Re: HELP PLEASE! Celiac Disease? Pulling the plug on grandp
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I had the same kind of problem when my mom died of alzheimers. I was alone in believing what she ate mattered. I had to stand around and watch them give her boxes of candy and feed her bologna sandwiches and Campbells tomato soup at the nursing home. I just wanted to grab her and run out the door. She passed away three years ago thanks to the help of the nursing home and dr's. He is very lucky you are there for him and I feel your frustration. I will say a prayer that he will recover soon.


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