AnnaS wrote:
hasanismom wrote:
This is in reference to your initial post. Calling a student a "bigot" or "intolerant" does not "clarify the student's thinking so that it makes sense." I'm sure you wouldn't do that in a classroom, right? Using that technique is namecalling and trying to discredit the person in order to make your argument stronger. You seem like an intelligent person, so I'm sure that you don't have to resort to that in order to make your point. Also, I think everyone's opinion was stated clearly on this board so that "others can understand and agree or disagree with it." It's just that some may have become angry by others' objections to the interview, and as a result, they may be trying to use certain tactics to run them out of the forum.
I tried to be subtle with you but you didn't seem to get it. So I will try again.
You have either misunderstood my original post, are purposely misunderstanding it, or are twisting my words around to your own purposes. Your purpose seems to be to paint yourself as a victim, a 'martyr,' and some unnamed others as hounded, run out out of the forum. I just laughed out loud at this! No one has been chased out of the forum, it seems that any random person is welcome to come here and post whatever they want to say regardless of if they are actually following this program or not. It's about as open, free and public as you can get.
You keep saying I have called persons intolerant. That is not true, a.k.a. a lie. I objected to statements questioning Dr. McDougall's "religious values" which were inappropriate, untrue, unkind and showed a certain hypocrisy since those people are accepting Dr. McDougall's help. I also referred to these statements as "religious bigotry" in another post. Those are very strong words, but they are directed at the unfair comments themselves. Would I say this to a student about his writing? Of course. How else would the student learn to discern valid ideas from plain prejudice.
In making my remarks I hoped that people would consider that their criticism of Dr. McDougall need not include such an attack, and it seems that they did consider this as these comments were removed. I have no objection whatsoever to these very same people, or anyone else, stating their disagreements publicly about Dr. McDougall or his article. I have repeated this several times now and I mean it.
But, most importantly, I have not called anyone names, nor would I. Instead I would hope they might see the mistake in their behavior and correct it. I would ENCOURAGE any of these people, or anyone still interested in this tedious argument, to go ahead and articulate clearly what your concerns are. If you have religious concerns, these can be expressed in a way that is not hateful. It might be that you wouldn't feel comfortable discussing those on the forum--there seems to be a general consensus in our society that religion is a private matter, and so that sometimes leads to some discomfort. If that were the case, I would still counsel such a person to go ahead and explain their concerns clearly and openly in a letter to Dr. McDougall. I am quite sure he reads all his mail, and your thoughts may help him to better understand his audience.
There is nothing more I can say about this. I have explained myself clearly enough that I think most people understand me. I also think that most people can see that what you are doing in twisting my words around is dishonest. I leave it at that, and I see no need for me to continue this discussion.
AnnaS,
In all fairness,
maybe I have misunderstood your point of view. Maybe I got caught up with looking at the way it was delivered and not considering that you do not mean to come off as rude or condescending when you say things like "I tried to be subtle with you but you didn't seem to get it. So I will try again."
If you saw my post as being hateful then I definitely believe that I was mistaken as well. I do NOT hate Dr. McDougall or anyone on this board whether they agree with me or not, so I don't intend to put out hateful words. Maybe you are referring to another person; I don't know.
In no way do I want to come off as being a "matyr" or "victim." I just want to make my point clear as I'm sure most people on this board would like to as well. I didn't attack Dr. McDougall's religious beliefs, so maybe you're not referring to my post, and those posts that did, if they were erased, then I'm sure that they found that they may have said something out of line. I don't believe that what I said was out of line; hence, the reason my initial post is still on there.
There is nothing more I can say about this. I have explained myself clearly enough that I think most people understand me. I also think that most people can see that what you are doing in twisting my words around is dishonest. I leave it at that, and I see no need for me to continue this discussion.
Now, who’s trying to look like a victim here? I'm not twisting your words around. I just don't agree with some of what you've said in reference to people's posts and my own, and I brought it to the surface. That's all.
I understand and respect your wish to leave this topic alone.
P.S. Note to self...Stop watching this topic as well, and just concentrate on continuing to lose weight and get healthy.