You have studied both sides and have not found either one convincing?
What are you seeking out of your diet? You don't need to lose weight - are you concerned about your current health, or your long-term health? Something else?
I am sure just telling you what to do won't help, because the low carbohydrate people will tell you the opposite, and since neither side has convinced you, who are you to believe?
Perhaps instead, some of my own experience will help. What I am about to say is completely anecdotal, of course, and is not grounds for a life-long decision on your part.
When I tried the Atkins diet, I became ill. I craved carbohydrates, like you. My body forced me to give it up after only a few weeks. I did not voluntarily give it up; I physically could not stand it anymore. I know many people on the internet claim to be happy and healthy on a low-carb diet, but of all the people that I personally know that have tried it, none have succeeded, and all have become worse. All of them. Check with the people you know. How many have tried it, without cheating, and actually succeeded, and continue to succeed?
Later, I stumbled upon The China Study by T. Colin Campbell, Ph.D. That was the pivot point in my life. It is the point when I stopped dying, and started healing. It provided the scientific education I was lacking, and the understanding of why I was sick. I followed the reference in the book to this place, where Dr. John McDougall taught me most of the rest of what I know, including how to succeed on a whole foods vegan diet.
That is pretty much it, in a nutshell.
You crave carbohydrates because you need carbohydrates. This is just like how you crave air and water; because you need both. You crave cheese and dairy because it is chemically addicting (milk contains opiates, which is a narcotic). I learned that from Breaking the Food Seduction by Dr. Neal Barnard. A few weeks after eliminating dairy from my diet, my cravings for it were gone and have never come back. My craving for carbohydrates never went away. Now, I find cheese rather smelly, kind of like the rotten pus that it is (part of milk's whiteness comes from pus (see the "Marketing Milk and Disease" lecture from McDougall's Medicine DVD - free download:
https://ssl.sonic.net/mcdsite/free/DLV03-V04.zip), and cheese is made in part by allowing milk to age, or, in other words, rot). Your cravings for fatty foods are driven by your body's desire to store fat for periods of scarcity or starvation. Any cravings for meat that you might have is a craving for the salt in the meat; you have taste buds for the salt put on the meat, but not for the animal proteins that come with the meat.
Here is one more thing to think about. Lets say you separate all foods into three categories: animal foods (meat and dairy), plant foods (comes from the ground), and industrial foods ("food" that only exists when machines or mechanisms are involved, like oil, white bread, white rice, High Fructose Corn Syrup, Soy Protein Isolate, candy, etc...). Now lets say you also separate all diets into four categories, while ignoring the weird ones that involve eating nothing or a single thing (or ...): Atkins-like, Standard American Diet (SAD)-like, McDougall-like, and Western-Vegan (for lack of a better term). What does the grid look like?
.............................animal..................plant............industrial
Atkins......................yes......................yes.................no
SAD.........................yes......................yes................yes
Western-Vegan..........no......................yes.................yes
McDougall..................no......................yes..................no
I believe - and I think most people here would agree - that two of these food categories (animal, plant, industrial) are unhealthy in the human diet. Atkins and McDougall diets tell you that industrial foods are unhealthy. Western-Vegan and McDougall diets tell you that animal foods are unhealthy. All diets tell you that plant foods are healthy, though they may impose some of their own restrictions on the particular kinds of plant foods (Atkins doesn't like starches but does like fat, where-as McDougall likes starches and does not like fat). It seems that plant foods are the undisputed champions of the diets - all of them, even the evil one.
I hope this helps in some way. If you have already studied both sides in-depth, with a razor-sharp mind and a skeptical bent, and are still confused, I am not really sure how I could help. It sounds like you are on, or trying to be on, a low-carbohydrate diet now. Perhaps you should give the McDougall diet a serious six month trial. Will you still desire meat and cheese after that period? If you don't, maybe Dr. Barnard, Dr. McDougall, and the others are right, and you shouldn't eat it.