Welcome. I'm glad you're giving this a shot!
I live in the San Francisco Bay Area, in a big town, but I don't know anyone eating McDougall's Starch Solution either (except my husband). My husband eats this way because he loves me, wants to support me, and wants to be healthy, too, but he doesn't really want to think and talk about it the way I do!
I don't eat out anymore because it is too much of a hassle to try to convert the crap in restaurants to something I can eat! I like how I combine and prepare the foods I eat better anyway! I have McDougall's fast recipes cookbook and 3-4 other WFPB authors' cookbooks too, plus a lot of WFPB websites and Pinterest for recipes. Tell you the truth, I rarely cook from recipes though because I prefer to just rotate 5-6 simple entrees all week long, over and over again. I'll use a recipe usually for something special for my family, like a banana blueberry bread, bean burger or lentil loaf recipes.
Hope you have great success and stay around!